THE JOURNAL

Notes for the long work of raising people.

Practical guidance, honest questions, and useful things to try, without the urgency and noise.

Long Childhood - Children’s book titled “A Terrible Thing Happened” by Margaret M. Holmes, with an illustration of a worried raccoon thinking about a dark cloud, placed on a wooden surface.

A Terrible Thing Happened

★★★★☆ 4.8 out of 5 — from over 1,670 Amazon ratings

After Sherman Smith witnesses something frightening, he tries hard to forget it. Before long he starts having bad dreams, stomachaches, angry feelings, and trouble understanding his own behavior. A caring adult named Ms. Maple gives him a safe place to talk about what happened and helps him see that his reactions make sense.

The book never identifies the event Sherman witnessed, so families can use it across many difficult circumstances without adding unnecessary detail. Margaret M. Holmes offers children a gentle introduction to trauma responses, trusted adults, and asking for help. Best read with a supportive caregiver or professional, as a way into conversations about body signals, confusing emotions, and what to do when an experience feels too big to carry alone.

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Long Childhood - A children’s book titled “The Invisible String” by Patrice Karst lies on a textured surface, surrounded by a pink cloth, a wooden heart, and some leaves.

The Invisible String

★★★★☆ 4.8 out of 5 — from over 21,926 Amazon ratings

The Invisible String gives children a comforting way to understand how love continues across distance. When two children worry about being separated from their mother, she tells them about an invisible string that connects everyone who loves one another, a string that can stretch across rooms, cities, oceans, and even farther, but never disappears.

Patrice Karst’s gentle story helps families talk through separation anxiety, grief, moving, travel, bedtime fears, or missing someone important, and opens thoughtful conversation about the many relationships that help children feel secure. Pairs naturally with drawing family connections, writing letters, or remembering loved ones who can’t be physically present.

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Long Childhood - Children’s book titled “The Color Monster: a story about emotions” by Anna Llenas, featuring colorful monster illustrations on the cover, lies on a wooden table next to a jar of yarn.

The Color Monster

★★★★☆ 4.8 out of 5 — from over 17,738 Amazon ratings

The Color Monster wakes up with all his feelings tangled together, happy, sad, angry, scared, and calm, unable to tell where one emotion ends and another begins. With help from a patient young friend, he sorts each feeling by color and learns how it feels in his body. Anna Llenas pairs expressive collage-style illustrations with a simple story that gives children an approachable language for complicated emotions.

Works especially well for preschool and early elementary social-emotional learning, morning check-ins, and conversations after a hard day. Extend it with painting, color sorting, journaling, or asking your child which colors match their feelings.

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Jabari Tries

★★★★☆ 4.9 out of 5 — from over 898 Amazon ratings

Jabari Tries, by Gaia Cornwall, is a story about perseverance, flexibility, and learning to accept help when you need it.

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Ned the Knitting Pirate

★★★★☆ 4.9 out of 5 — from over 66 Amazon ratings

Ned the Knitting Pirate, by Diana Murray, is a tale about a pirate who loves to knit, reminding kids that even if you don’t quite fit in, you can stand out in the best way.

This one has a smaller review count than our other picks — just 66 ratings. This listing links to the Kindle edition because the hardcover is currently out of print / not reliably available.

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I’m From

★★★★☆ 4.9 out of 5 — from over 33 Amazon ratings

I’m From, by Gary R. Gray Jr., is a touching, poetic picture book about all the small, ordinary moments that shape who we are, beyond what others can see.

This one has a smaller review count than our other picks — just 33 ratings — but a very high rating on what it has.

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Buffalo Fluffalo

★★★★☆ 4.8 out of 5 — from over 563 Amazon ratings

Buffalo Fluffalo, by Bess Kalb, follows a buffalo who tries to be something he’s not, in a story that encourages self-acceptance.

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Beneath

★★★★☆ 4.8 out of 5 — from over 120 Amazon ratings

Beneath, written and illustrated by Cori Doerrfeld, is a gentle picture book that reminds readers there is more beneath the surface of what we can see in ourselves and in others.

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The Noise Inside Boys

★★★★☆ 4.6 out of 5 — from over 175 Amazon ratings

The Noise Inside Boys, by Pete Oswald, is a picture book about naming and managing big feelings.

It’s part of a growing set of books helping boys build emotional intelligence, giving them language and tools for the noisy, hard-to-name emotions they carry inside.

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Beezus and Ramona

★★★★☆ 4.6 out of 5 — from over 2,500 Amazon ratings

Beverly Cleary captures sibling life with humor, warmth, and the kind of everyday conflict children immediately recognize. Nine-year-old Beezus loves her younger sister, Ramona, but Ramona’s imagination, stubbornness, and talent for disruption often test that love. The story gives homeschool readers an accessible chapter book with lively family scenes, strong characterization, and plenty to discuss about patience, embarrassment, responsibility, and sibling relationships.

It works well as an independent read, a family read-aloud, or part of a literature study centered on realistic fiction. Cleary’s direct language also supports children transitioning from early readers to longer chapter books.

A homeschool literature staple for elementary-age readers.

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Long Childhood - The book “Magic Tree House: Dinosaurs Before Dark” rests on a wooden surface next to a rolled green towel and a brass flashlight, with greenery visible in the background.

Dinosaurs Before Dark (Magic Tree House #1)

★★★★☆ 4.7 out of 5 — from over 7,500 Amazon ratings

Jack and Annie discover a mysterious tree house filled with books, then find themselves in the age of dinosaurs. Mary Pope Osborne keeps the chapters short, the language approachable, and the suspense moving, giving emerging readers a strong introduction to chapter books. The story can launch a homeschool unit on dinosaurs, fossils, prehistoric habitats, or the difference between fiction and scientific evidence.

It also works well as a read-aloud for younger siblings. Children who connect with the adventure can continue through the Magic Tree House series, building reading stamina through familiar characters and a predictable story structure.

A go-to first chapter book for homeschool reading and dinosaur unit studies.

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